In R Tick U L8
I realize that I haven't been talking about much of a personal nature, for quite a long time.
I know it's going to sound weird, but part of it is that I know how many people care about me, here. I expect them to want to offer sympathy, and that's not what I feel I need. Now, maybe they need to offer it, and that's not wrong. Maybe I just don't want to distract them from people who need it more? I don't know.
Things are progressing, in little steps.
The move went off okay; fairly flawlessly, in fact. About the worst thing I can think of is that my bed doesn't seem to fit up the stairs, so I set it up in the living room, instead. For a guy who has lived without any living room furniture at all for two years, this is not really a hardship.
I had some brief contact with the wife, for a while. She even sounded like she would accept being served papers, assuming it could be done without making a scene. However, she also seemed to believe that she was being harassed and even her computer hacked, by people I had hired, which was obviously not true. So ... instead of accepting the papers, she shut off her phone and e-mail (obviously changed to other accounts), so I no longer have a way to contact her.
But, I should soon be able to dispose of the car we own jointly (its lease is up soon), which will free up even more money. I might finally be able to start paying back what my Dad lent me (he probably will refuse, but at least I could.) The divorce can't last forever, even if she hides, and selling the house is the last big financial thing binding us.
I still avoid things I have to do, and I'm still going to therapy every other week to try to change. My work still sucks, and it seems to be in ever more uncertain financial health, so I might have to go job-hunting.
All in all, I guess it's going okay.
See you all next time.
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